By Andi Zeisler

Andi Zeisler is the cofounder of Bitch Media and the author of the book Feminism and Pop Culture . She lives, writes, watches TV, and embroiders dog portraits in Portland, Oregon, where it really is like that. Find her on Twitter .

  1. The worst thing about turning 40 wasn’t the birthday itself. It wasn’t the psychological adjustment of no longer being able to refer to myself as “a thirtysomething,” because a) I never did that, and b) I still regularly get carded for beer. It wasn’t even the feeling of not really wanting to celebrate but feeling like I had to celebrate, because milestones. The worst thing was knowing that I wasn’t going to get a phone…

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